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Why do men prefer women below the age of 30?

12.06.2025 02:51

Why do men prefer women below the age of 30?

Another reason is fewer sexual partners. A single woman at 18 will more likely have fewer sexual partners than a 30 year old. Are there some 18 year old women who are promiscuous and have a high body count? Yes, that’s the exception to the rule. A 30 year old woman who is single has been poked more times than the Pillsbury Doughboy. She’s used up, passed the age of men’s beauty standards, and past the age of her best fertile years. To most men, she’s totally useless and good for recreational purposes only. Are there women out there who are the exception to the rule? Yes.

Another reason is fertility. A woman’s best years for giving birth is 18–30. In some cultures, 14–30. If she's unmarried 30+, then she is shamed and called “Leftovers”. sheng nü" (剩女), which translates to "leftover woman”.

A woman’s main asset is youth and beauty. Why do you think women get plastic surgery to make themselves look younger and prettier? Fake boobs, BBLs, Botox, and Lip injections are the majority of plastic surgery procedures. Women know their main asset is youth and beauty and they have to compete with women between 18–30. Once women start losing their beauty, they no longer have the leverage in relationships.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?